How To Identify Your Strengths

We’ve all been asked the question: What are your strengths? If it catches you off guard, then it's time to take personal inventory. Your strengths are the foundation of your success. It's important to know which qualities make you stand out. Not only is being aware of your strengths positive for an employer, it also… Continue reading How To Identify Your Strengths

Lifestyle, Relationship

The Art Of Disagreeing: How To Disagree With People Respectfully

Disagreements are normal, healthy parts of life. We experience disagreements when our thoughts and feelings don’t align with the other person’s point of view. But disagreeing with our friends, coworkers and family members can actually be good for us! Clinical psychologist Ben Michaelis, Ph.D. talked about what he calls the eighty-five percent rule . He… Continue reading The Art Of Disagreeing: How To Disagree With People Respectfully

Motivation, Relationship

How To Overcome Limiting Beliefs : 5 Types of Limiting Beliefs That Single People Have

You’ve probably heard a lot of talk about limiting beliefs and how they hold you back from doing the things you want the most. Most people have a lot of limiting beliefs that affect their career, health, and current relationships negatively. But when it comes to single people who are looking for love, having their… Continue reading How To Overcome Limiting Beliefs : 5 Types of Limiting Beliefs That Single People Have


5 Reasons Why Arguments Are Good For A Relationship

“Couples who argue a lot might love each other deeply”. At a first glance, this statement looks all shades of weird, right? I thought so too but like I’ll always say; understand before you criticize. It took me quite some time to really grasp the sense around this statement but experience came to the rescue.… Continue reading 5 Reasons Why Arguments Are Good For A Relationship

Blog Traffic

How To Use Crowdfire To Boost Your Presence Online and Increase Your Blog Traffic

Can I share a secret with you? Since the time I discovered crowdfire, my social media accounts have literally being on fire. Want to know how I achieved this feat? Relax, take a glass of fruit juice and let me take you on a journey of discovery. Just like many other bloggers, one of the… Continue reading How To Use Crowdfire To Boost Your Presence Online and Increase Your Blog Traffic


What To Do If Your Spouse Cheats On You: Handling The Pain Of Unfaithfulness

Cheating, even with how heartbreaking it is, has unfortunately become a common phenomenon in relationships. In a perfect world, no one would cheat and relationships would have a complete season of bliss, devoid of suspicion and unfaithfulness but alas, welcome to reality. You know, I was a bit confused at first, as to how to… Continue reading What To Do If Your Spouse Cheats On You: Handling The Pain Of Unfaithfulness


Are Men Really Polygamous By Nature?

"Men are polygamous in nature". It struck me like lightning when I first heard someone make this statement. I felt it was another case of people trying to rationalize a perceived wrongdoing. What was more surprising was to see some women speak in defence of this statement. In defence of the 'men are polygamous by… Continue reading Are Men Really Polygamous By Nature?


Organizing Ideas:How To Organize Your Home

​Photo Credit: Priceless Homes Who doesn't like a place that is arranged, no one. However, with the fast-paced nature of the world and the monday - friday rush hour trajectory, it has become increasingly difficult to keep the house arranged. For those who have some extra cash, they simply get a househelp to do the… Continue reading Organizing Ideas:How To Organize Your Home

Lifestyle, Relationship

Love Never Fails

​Relationships fail. Jobs fail. Families fail. Marriages fail. Friendships fail. Health fails. In the midst of the hurt and disappointment we endure day in and day out, there is a hope, a security, and a support system in Christ that will never leave us, or forsake us. There is a love from the kingdom of… Continue reading Love Never Fails

Lifestyle, Relationship

Love Is Not Easily Angered

​ When anger takes root in our lives, everyone and everything suffers as a result. Keeping tabs on the mistakes our loved ones have made, and allowing anger to take root in our lives are two toxic habits that will eliminate love from your life sooner than you think. Forgive your loved ones, and choose… Continue reading Love Is Not Easily Angered

Lifestyle, Relationship

Love Rejoices With The Truth

​ So often in life we subconsciously delight in the failures of others. I'm sure you're familiar with the quote, "Hurt people, hurt people." If we're being honest, we've all felt a little bigger when someone we don't particularly like doesn't succeed. Competition in the body of Christ is just as present as it is… Continue reading Love Rejoices With The Truth


Above All, Love Yourself

People say that they love themselves all the time. Bookstores’ aisles are flooded with the latest praises for self-love and self-acceptance. Still, the charge to “love yourself” is often dismissed. Maya Angelou once warned, “I do not trust people who do not love themselves and yet tell me, ‘I love you.’ There is an African saying which is: be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.”


The True Definition of Love

Love is bigger than you are. You can invite love, but you cannot dictate how, when, and where love expresses itself. You can choose to surrender to love, or not, but in the end love strikes like lightening, unpredictable and irrefutable. You can even find yourself loving people you don't like at all. Love does not come with conditions, stipulations, addenda, or codes. Like the sun, love radiates independently of our fears and desires.


Inspirational Love Quotes  For Valentine’s Day

The thought of February 14 ignites the flame of love in the hearts of many. Its usually seen as a `Love and Romance Certified day'. Many guys have a tendency of looking for ways to break-up before this day in order to avoid spending  ton of cash while some other willing spenders desperately go in… Continue reading Inspirational Love Quotes  For Valentine’s Day


Love: A Philosophical and Psychological Point of View

The term Love cannot be boxed into one definition. Everyone choose what it means to them and how they express it. Away from the societal definition, I decided to undertake a scholarly view of love- how it comes and what it means- in order to see love from different perspectives. Join me on this journey as wr learn from two schools of thought; the philosophers and the psychologists.


Love Can Hurt Sometimes

Overtime, we've been inundated with stories of 'and they lived happily ever after'. As far as I'm concerned that statement is nothing but a myth. Truthfully, there are no 'happily ever after' love stories because love can be painful. It requires perseverance to go through the pain of loving someone. People tend to have this image of love being an all rosy affair where you find yourself locked in a perpetual  state of happiness. Thanks to the fairy love tales we grew up listening to.


Smart Goals: Tricks On How To Appear Smarter Than You Are

The word 'smart' has arguably become the most common word to be associated with intelligience. I mean that's partly why we have the usage of the term 'smart' phones. Thus, this further foregrounds the importance of appearing smart. Futhermore, the nature of interviews seems to have changed so much in the world today that it's not really always the most brilliant person in the room that gets the job. In fact, it has been said that the American Billionaire Jeff Bezos is usually more concerned about how candidates answer behavioural questions, as opposed to how they answer technical questions.


Life Quotes That Will Help You To Succeed in 2018- II

Towards the end of 2017, I put up a post on life quotes that will help you to succeed in 2018 and I believe a lot of people found it very useful. Words they say, are powerful. We all need to hear inspiring words that would propel us further from time to time. Every day,… Continue reading Life Quotes That Will Help You To Succeed in 2018- II


Tales of a City Girl- Good People Bad Decisions

Have you ever regretted decisions that have reshaped your life, whether for better or for worse? At a recent get-together with a couple of friends, we became so relaxed, some of us started discussing our dead marriages. Out of about 12 of us in the group, only three were currently in their ‘husbands’ homes, we’ve… Continue reading Tales of a City Girl- Good People Bad Decisions


How To Handle the Fear of Rejection

Truthfully, if you live long enough, you would get rejected at some point in your life. So, you have to accept the fact that not everyone would accept you for who you are or what you want. The feeling of rejection could come from different channels. It could come from your workplace, family or even friends. Some people who are divorced today walked out of their marriages simply because they felt rejected by their spouse. Don't let the feeling of rejection keep you out of the game. We have all heard the success stories of Oprah, Bill Gates, JK Rowling, Michael Jordan, Madonna and a host of other celebrities or public figures who have sold millions over the last few years. It is a given that each one of these individuals all have success in common but did you know they also share one other common denominator? REJECTION!